I can't take another DAY of being utterly alone! I can't take another DAY of there not being one girl on the PLANET who will look at me!

I am DIEING here, pulling my hair out, punching holes in doors and walls. I feel so much like screaming I can't make a sound!

WHY is it so much harder for me than everyone else?!? WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO?!?!?!?!?!?!? I'll do ANYTHING!!! I can't stand it anymore!



Sorry... I'm going to go cry into my pillow for a while, then I'll be back to my usual self....

 

I'm sorry honey *hugs* Dating can be such a difficult thing, thank God I'm out of that race, least for now. Chin up fella, it'll get better. :rose:

 

I wouldn't know. I've never been on a date.

 

I'm sorry. Are you a shy type of fella?

 

when you stop looking, or least expect it, you'll meet someone.

 

My New Acquaintance

As I drove up to the station for a fill up,there she was,with her short skirt showing her lovely bottom.glimmering in the moon lite. I saw her eyes meet mine,and she gasp for breath as I slowly walked over to her, she ask,,"where you headed boy", I thought and said where ever you want beautiful, and we took off flying in my Trans am with the top down.and she moved over to me hugging with her arm under mine.Dam she was beautiful with those big blue eyes and those moist lips very wet now,I moved my head down to her face and she pulled me hard close to her,and kissed me very gently,and I was so aroused,,,,,,,ut oh dam its 5am already,,gotta go to work,,lmao

 

I know what you mean. I'm not super shy, I just don't really like to get into courting until I want to and she wants to. It makes the relationship a lot better.

However, if you're one of the guys that really wants to go on a date, just start asking. Somebody is bound to say yes.

My advice is: Don't go for the most drop dead gorgeous woman in the room (even though, I have no doubt that you could get her) and go for somebody you could actually see yourself dating.

Give it a shot

 

Amen, Lisa is right here AC. Just step back and watch, you'll find ya a nice gal.

 

AIS, it sucks being alone, it really does. Try to stop dwelling on it and relax. Go out with your friends and have a good time. Smile, enjoy yourself. Find something that you absolutely love to do and do it. Once you feel the difference in yourself, it will be reflected in your smile, your eyes, and you will be noticed.

 

dude look around - find a someone in your world and look past her flaws - ask her for a date, if she say no go past - find another - one will say yes and then get to know the person - become fascinated with the person.... all takes time! best

 

I am so sorry that you're having such a terrible day!!! You're young yet, you will have lots of time for dates in your life. Feeling alone is an awful feeling, I've been there. I'm sending you a HUGE cyber hug!!! When you feel better come back and visit with everyone....Hang in there, we all care!!!:rose:

 

in 14 minutes we all reach out - I am proud to be among you all! - thanks!

 

We can be nice MW. hee hee

 

We're a community, we care about our own.

 

Kinda.

I've tried that. It doesn't work.

I have. (And besides, I make a point to seek the ugliest first. Going after a good-looking girl would be SO hypocritical of me.)

I've done a lot of that. It just doesn't happen. How can it when all I ever see is the inside of my room? And before you say "just get out there, get out more" etc. I ask, where? Last time I checked, just leaving the house didn't quite cut it.

I don't have any friends. And most of my hobbies don't make good group activities anyway, and even if they did, it wouldn't be a good setting to meet anyone. I'm a computer geek afterall.

That's the thing. There isn't anyone in my world, and even looking outside it (And I am SO FAR PAST caring about flaws of ANY kind) Nobody will even LOOK at me. "One will say yes" hasn't been my experience.

 

this is what you do buy a gun and ammo. cock the gun and put the gun to your head. and pull the trigger... fucking emo. just stop it. sitting in ur room isnt going to do you any better. go to a party. or do what i do crash a couple. its that simple. or if all else fails join the navy you wont be alone there.muhahahahahah :shock:

 

Well, first thing we gotta do is get you out of your room

 

Dude, go fuck yourself. . .contain yourself to the fighting thread, regardless of whatever drama may or may not have went on around here the last few weeks, we still stick together here and for the most part are here to help people out. So, if you're gonna be a dick, get the fuck outta here.

 

I read what you wrote in another thread ... I cannot quote it but you said something like "you have someone who loves you - don't you realize how lucky you are?"

That is the kind of thing that will show through to a woman. I agree with the others ... ask until someone says yes. And then show her why she's lucky she did.

 

And go where? I'm not being rhetorical, I literally have NO WHERE to go, so if you have any ideas...